You think about
them more than
they know.
You remember their dog's name. You notice when they seem off. You mean to check in — but you're busy, and somehow a month turns into three. Add them once. We write the message, track the relationship, and make sure they hear from you — every time.
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MyReminders
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Scheduled
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Sent
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Contacts
Sarah's Birthday
Tomorrow · 9:00 AM
Happy birthday Sarah! Hope Max is letting you sleep in — you deserve it 🎂
Mum & Dad's Anniversary
Jun 15 · 10:00 AM
40 years — you two are still the gold standard for what love looks like 💕
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- Autopilot
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12 types
Occasion categories
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Wishes sent for you, on time
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The people who matter most deserve better than a late text
We all have the intention. Life just gets in the way. MyReminders closes the gap between caring and showing it.
You remembered — the day after
Their birthday was yesterday. You knew it was coming. Life just got in the way. Again.
You saw the notification too late
The calendar alert fired at 6 AM. You snoozed it. By dinner, the moment had passed.
You didn't know what to say
You opened WhatsApp, stared at the blank text box, and closed it. 'Happy birthday' felt too generic.
Time zones ate your good intentions
They're in Tokyo, you're in London. By the time you woke up, it was already tomorrow for them.
MyReminders handles all of this for you
Set it up once.
Never forget again.
Add someone you care about
Their name, their birthday, a note about what makes them them — their running joke, the thing they're working through, the name of their dog. The more you add, the more the message sounds like it came from you specifically.
Tell us the occasion
Birthday. Anniversary. Graduation. The day they started their new job. A 'just checking in' nudge every few months. Tick 'repeats yearly' and you never think about it again — it comes back automatically every single year.
It shows up for you
A message reaches them at 9 AM their time. It mentions the thing only you would know. They think you wrote it that morning. You set it up in November. That's exactly the point.
No credit card required
Your best marketing is a birthday message.
People don't leave businesses because of price. They leave because they stopped feeling remembered.
Neha, salon owner · Hyderabad
Banjara Hills, 3 years in business
On Priya's birthday, I sent her a WhatsApp — not a bulk blast, a real one referencing the balayage we did together six months ago. She showed it to her husband. She told her colleague. She referred four paying customers.
more spent by repeat customers vs new ones
cheaper to retain a customer than acquire one
birthday message → 4 referrals (real example)
Works for every relationship-driven business
People like you,
showing up when it counts
These aren't edge cases. They're Tuesday mornings and forgotten anniversaries and time zones that don't care about your schedule.
“I was on a flight to a client pitch when Mum turned 60. MyReminders had already sent her a message in the morning — one that mentioned her garden and her chai ritual. She called me in tears. Good tears.”
Priya, 34
Marketing Manager · Singapore
“I manage relationships with 200+ clients. A personalised anniversary message from me? They know it's genuine because of the detail in it. Three clients renewed contracts the same month I started using it.”
James, 42
Business Owner · Manchester
“The time zones used to destroy me. My family is in São Paulo — I'd forget to account for the 8-hour difference and send a birthday message at midnight. Now it arrives at 9 AM their time, in Portuguese, every year.”
Sofia, 29
Expat · Dubai (family in Brazil)
“Our son arrived and our social life evaporated. We stopped checking in on people — not because we didn't care, but because we couldn't. MyReminders kept those friendships alive through a year we can barely remember.”
Marcus & Emma
New parents · Austin
“I call home every Sunday but I kept missing the small things — Dad's retirement anniversary, the day Mum finished her kitty tournament. MyReminders reminds me on those days with something warm already written — one tap on WhatsApp and it's sent. Dad called me last month just to say 'beta, you remembered.' That call was worth everything.”
Arjun, 38
Software Engineer · Bengaluru (parents in Rajasthan)
Illustrative scenarios based on common user experiences during beta. Names and images are representative.
The research behind why
staying in touch is hard —
and worth fixing.
We built MyReminders because we kept seeing the same pattern: good people, good intentions, and a gap between the two that nobody talks about. Turns out there's a lot of research on exactly why that gap exists.
150
Dunbar's number
You're not bad at relationships. You're at capacity.
Oxford anthropologist Robin Dunbar spent decades studying human social groups. His finding: we have genuine emotional bandwidth for around 150 relationships — but cognitive bandwidth to actively maintain far fewer. That's not a character flaw. It's just how brains work. The people who stay close aren't more caring. They've usually just found a system.
10×
the impact vs. the effort
The gap between sending and receiving is bigger than you think.
Research on social recognition consistently shows that being specifically remembered on a meaningful day — not just wished well generically, but actually remembered, with your name, your detail, your thing — triggers a disproportionate emotional response. The effort to send it is trivial. What it costs the sender and what it means to the recipient are nowhere close to equal. Most people underestimate this massively.
#1
end-of-life regret
"I wish I'd stayed in closer touch."
Palliative care researchers who study what people regret at the end of life find the same pattern across cultures: professional regrets fade. Relationship regrets don't. 'I wish I'd stayed in closer touch with my friends' ranks higher than money, missed opportunities, or things unsaid. Not because those things don't matter — but because lost relationships are the thing time can't fix. The window closes quietly.
12h
time zone gap
For expats and diaspora: this isn't just convenience. It's identity.
If you grew up in one country and live in another, staying connected to home isn't nice-to-have — it's load-bearing. Studies on diaspora mental health link regular meaningful contact with family to measurably better outcomes for anxiety, belonging, and identity stability. Missing the rituals — the birthdays, the anniversaries, the 'just checking in' moments — costs more than the relationship. It costs a piece of who you are.
None of this is news to you. You already know the people you should check in on more. The question is just whether the right tool is in the way.
Start for freeThe details that make
it feel real.
AI that sounds like you
Add what makes them them — their dog's name, the inside joke, the thing they mentioned in passing. The AI uses it. They notice.
Greeting cards, not just texts
When your contact is also on MyReminders, send them an animated card — not just a message. They get a push notification and open something that looks like you made it just for them.
Tick 'repeats yearly'. Walk away.
Add the occasion once. Every year it comes back — same person, new message, nothing required from you. It just shows up.
Reaches them where they actually are
Your mum is on WhatsApp. Your old school friend only checks email. Email goes out automatically; for WhatsApp, the chat opens with your message already written — one tap and it's sent.
Import from iPhone in seconds
Export your iPhone Contacts as a .vcf file and drop it in. We parse birthdays, emails, and phone numbers automatically — your whole address book, ready in one go.
Your eyes on it before it goes
Every message waits in your queue before delivery. Edit the wording, push the time, or cancel it entirely. It's your name on it — final call is always yours.
Relationship health score
See every relationship scored 0–100. Green means you're showing up. Red means someone's quietly slipping away — and we'll tell you before it's too late.
Streaks, badges & year in review
Keep a weekly streak of showing up. Earn badges for milestones. At year end, share your relationship summary — 47 messages sent, 23 people nurtured, zero birthdays missed.
Weekly relationship digest
Every week: who you reached, who's drifting, what's coming up. With AI-drafted reconnect messages for the people you haven't spoken to in 60+ days.
9 AM their time, wherever they are
You're in Dubai, they're in São Paulo. Schedule once — it arrives at 9 AM their local time. No mental maths, no 3 AM wake-ups.
Web today. iPhone & Android next.
Use it in any browser right now, or add it to your home screen in five seconds. Native iPhone and Android apps are in testing, with on-device contact import.
Not just reminders.
A relationship system.
Most apps remind you. We show you who needs you, draft the message, and help you build a habit of actually showing up.
Know who needs you before they drift away.
Every contact gets a live health score. Red means act now — we'll draft the message.
Relationship Health
5 people tracked
You're consistently showing up for Priya. Keep the momentum — their birthday is in 3 weeks, perfect timing to go the extra mile.
Start free. Upgrade when
you're ready.
No credit card needed. Paid plans are launching soon, and early users get 3 months free on any paid plan at launch.
Cheaper than the flowers you'll send when you forget.
Free
Try it out, get the feel for it.
- 15 scheduled messages / month
- Unlimited AI-written messages
- Up to 25 contacts (50 for early birds)
- CSV contact import
- Email delivery only
- WhatsApp tap-to-send reminders
- Recurring yearly events
- Not included: Autopilot: wishes sent for you
- Not included: Unlimited contacts
- Not included: MyReminders Greeting Cards
- Not included: Relationship Health Score
Personal
For anyone who wants to stay connected.
- Autopilot: every birthday wished automatically
- Unlimited scheduled messages
- Unlimited AI generations
- Unlimited contacts
- MyReminders Greeting Cards
- Automatic email delivery
- WhatsApp auto-send (coming soon)
- Time-zone aware scheduling
- Relationship memory notes
- Relationship Health Score
- Streaks & badges
- Weekly relationship digest
- Message history
Coming soon
Family
One account, everyone covered.
- Everything in Personal
- Up to 5 family members
- Shared contact book
- Group occasion alerts
- Priority support
Coming soon
Business
Keep clients feeling valued at scale.
- Everything in Family
- Up to 20 team members
- CRM contact import (CSV)
- Custom sender name
- Analytics dashboard
- API access (coming soon)
- Priority + phone support
Coming soon
Early bird — until 31 December 2026
50 free contacts, kept for good
The free plan normally includes 25 contacts. Create your account before the offer ends and your free allowance stays at 50 — even after the promotion closes.
Claim the early-bird allowancePaid plans can be cancelled any time. Prices shown in USD.
Questions you're probably thinking
When you add a contact, you can add personal context: things you know about them, inside jokes, shared memories. The AI uses this to write something specific to your relationship. 'Happy birthday Sarah! Hope Max is letting you sleep in' beats 'Wishing you a wonderful day' every time.
Very soon. Today, Autopilot sends your wishes automatically by email, and for WhatsApp we open the chat with your message already written, so you just tap send. Fully automatic WhatsApp delivery is coming to paid plans as soon as our WhatsApp Business verification completes.
You can — and you'll get a perfectly decent message about someone ChatGPT knows nothing about. MyReminders knows that Priya has a dog named Max, just got promoted, and hates generic wishes. The AI output is only as good as the relationship context behind it. The more you add about someone, the more the message sounds like it came from you — because it did.
The AI still crafts a warm, natural message based on the occasion, your relationship type, and chosen tone. It just won't have those personal flourishes. You can always add notes later.
A calendar tells you what to do. MyReminders does it for you — or at minimum, shows up with the message pre-written so all you do is press send. We eliminate the 'now what do I say?' friction entirely.
That's the right question to ask. We built for it: your Relationship Health score shows you who's drifting before you even notice. A weekly digest tells you who you reached, what's coming up, and who needs a quick message. Streaks and milestones make showing up feel like progress, not a chore. Most reminder apps tell you what to do. We make you want to.
Always. You can review every scheduled message, edit it, or cancel it any time before it sends. You're in complete control — we just do the heavy lifting.
Yes. Your contacts and relationship notes are stored securely with row-level security, so only your account can read them, and encrypted in transit and at rest. We never sell or share your data. The notes you add about people are used only to generate messages for you.
Absolutely. You can use the AI generator any time to craft a one-off message and send it immediately, without scheduling. The app works for both planned and spontaneous moments.
Start with
one person.
Pick someone you've been meaning to reach out to. Add their occasion. Write a note about what makes them them. Next time that day comes around — you'll already have shown up.
Sign up by 31 December 2026 and keep 50 free contacts for good (the standard free plan has 25).